My boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me a week ago. Of course he lied and said he had a job in NC but that was not true. Lied about many things….anyway he will not stop calling or texting me. Using everything he can think of to get me to respond. Most of the texts are, as per a narcissist, downgrading me. Then wants to get back together, everything is my fault. He even had the nerve to tell me that when he broke up with me, I should have tried to work it out. Basically it’s my fault anyway, my question is should I keep staying in no contact with him? He is threatening to come see me if I do not respond.
Absolutely, it is strongly advised to continue maintaining no contact with your narcissistic ex-boyfriend, especially considering his threatening behavior. Here are some key reasons why you should stay committed to no contact:
Remember, the decision to continue no contact is ultimately yours. Trust your instincts, prioritize your well-being, and consider seeking support from a therapist or counselor who can provide guidance tailored to your specific situation.
Please keep in mind that the information provided here is for educational purposes only. For personalized advice, it is advisable to consult with a mental health professional.