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Asked: June 1, 20232023-06-01T16:10:49+05:00 2023-06-01T16:10:49+05:00In: Boundaries and No Contact

No contact?

My boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me a week ago. Of course he lied and said he had a job in NC but that was not true. Lied about many things….anyway he will not stop calling or texting me. Using everything he can think of to get me to respond. Most of the texts are, as per a narcissist, downgrading me. Then wants to get back together, everything is my fault. He even had the nerve to tell me that when he broke up with me, I should have tried to work it out. Basically it’s my fault anyway, my question is should I keep staying in no contact with him? He is threatening to come see me if I do not respond.

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    FahimChughtai Pundit Psychologist, writer
    2023-06-02T02:44:35+05:00Added an answer on June 2, 2023 at 2:44 am

    Absolutely, it is strongly advised to continue maintaining no contact with your narcissistic ex-boyfriend, especially considering his threatening behavior. Here are some key reasons why you should stay committed to no contact:

    1. Protection of your well-being: Continuing no contact provides you with the space and time necessary to heal and regain your emotional strength. It allows you to focus on yourself and prioritize your own happiness and mental health.
    2. Breaking the cycle: Narcissistic individuals often thrive on power and control. By engaging with your ex-boyfriend, even in response to threats, you inadvertently provide him with a sense of power and reinforce the toxic dynamic that existed in the relationship. Maintaining no contact disrupts this cycle and empowers you to move forward.
    3. Boundaries and self-respect: Setting and maintaining boundaries is crucial when dealing with a narcissistic ex. By refusing to respond to his attempts at contact, you assert your right to be treated with respect and protect your own well-being.
    4. Safety concerns: It is important to prioritize your safety above all else. If your ex-boyfriend’s threats escalate or if you genuinely feel in danger, it is recommended to seek assistance from trusted individuals, such as friends, family, or even the authorities, to ensure your protection.

    Remember, the decision to continue no contact is ultimately yours. Trust your instincts, prioritize your well-being, and consider seeking support from a therapist or counselor who can provide guidance tailored to your specific situation.

    Please keep in mind that the information provided here is for educational purposes only. For personalized advice, it is advisable to consult with a mental health professional.

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